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Our Story

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How We Met

We met on Tinder, swiping right on each other and instantly feeling a spark. What began as casual conversation quickly turned into something deeper, as we discovered how much we had in common and how easy it was to be ourselves around each other.

Our First Date

Our first date was unforgettable. Nicol came prepared with a game plan of discussion topics, which might sound a bit nerdy, but I absolutely loved it. It made for the most interesting and engaging conversation, and we effortlessly dove into topics ranging from Game of Thrones, our favourite books to our quirks and dreams for the future.

Lockdown

We moved in together during the height of COVID, thinking it would only be for three weeks. Well, five years later, here we are, still going strong. Being locked up 24/7 really gave us the chance to get to know each other in a way we never expected. All the quirks, idiosyncrasies, and habits we each had came to the surface—and let me tell you, we definitely learned a lot about one another! But through it all, we found a rhythm, and it only made us stronger.

The Proposal

Nicol proposed during a hike in the breathtaking Krantzkloof Gorge. We were sweaty and breathless by the time we made it to the top of the hill, but despite the physical exhaustion, it was the most romantic moment. And, of course, I said yes! It was a proposal that truly felt like it was meant to be—just like us.

We Say, "I do"!

We are so incredibly happy and grateful that our closest friends and family are here to bear witness to this special occasion. Having all of you here to celebrate with us means the world, and we couldn’t imagine marking this momentous day without your love and support. Thank you for being part of our journey and for making this day even more unforgettable.

Amanguni Hills

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Nestled amidst the rolling hills of the 1000 Hills region, Amanguni Hills stands as a breathtaking venue, radiating the romantic aura of nature. This beautiful haven will be the backdrop for the wedding of Nicol and Lydia, as we celebrate our love surrounded by the stunning tranquility of the landscape. Kindly note, in order to maintain an intimate atmosphere, the wedding will be an adults-only event.

 
 

Meals and Drinks

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We are pleased to share that all meals provided at the event are Halaal, with vegetarian options available to accommodate all of our guests. Kindly note that there will be a bar on-site, which will operate on a card-only basis. For your convenience, links to the menu and bar list can be found below. Menu. Drinks Menu

Accommodation Options

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  1. Valley Lodge, 2 Valley Dr, Belvedere Ext 1, Hillcrest, 3650. https://valleylodge.net/
  2. Kangelani Lodge, 4 Sparrow Ln, Alverstone, Outer West Durban, 3624 https://www.kangelani.co.za/
  3. Rivendell B&B, 5 Southern Avenue, Hillcrest, Durban, 3650, KwaZulu-Natal, https://rivendell.co.za/
 
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The Party

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The Bride - Lydia Harper

A self-proclaimed bookworm and anime enthusiast, Lydia is always on the lookout for the next great story to dive into. When she’s not lost in fantastical worlds, she loves spending quality time with her amazing friends and family. Whether it’s a cozy night filled with laughter during movie marathons or chatting over coffee, Lydia believes life’s best moments are made with the people who make you feel at home. She’s excited for this next chapter of her life, where she’ll get to write the greatest story of all—with Nicol by her side.

The Groom - Nicol Van Der Merwe

Someone who thrives on creativity and curiosity. Whether he's writing software, diving deep into the fascinating world of paleontology, or getting lost in a good sci-fi story, Nicol is always in search of new ideas and adventures. But above all, his greatest joy comes from spending time with Lydia, the love of his life. She’s the one who makes each day brighter and more meaningful, and our shared moments are his greatest treasure. Together, they're building a future filled with exploration, laughter, and love.

Maid of Honour

Meet Yasmin, also known as Yassy! She is sweet, kind, and loving, always making sure everyone in her circle is taken care of. Yassy is honored to be Lydia’s maid of honor and is dedicated to giving her cousin the best possible experience as a bride. She can’t wait for the big day!

Best Man

Karel has walked a long path with Nicol and Lydia and counts himself lucky to be their friend. As someone who values honesty, loyalty and empathy he is proud to be part of this special milestone and celebration event for two very special people. It is not often we get to celebrate in “life-moments” with kindred spirits, so it’s an honour to be present and witness their love entering a new chapter.

RSVP

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Please let us know if you will be attending